Theory and Practice

Our Theory

Handling conflict with clarity and creativity is essential to every organization's well-being. Yet, the most common responses to conflict are fight (confrontation) or flight (avoidance), as people seek to conquer or avoid stressful situations. Fight or flight responses to conflict often result in profound personal, institutional and financial costs.

The ARIA Group works with clients to teach engagement as an alternative to fight or flight. The benefits of successfully engaging conflict include:

  • Improved communication
  • Greater Productivity
  • Increased creativity
  • Enhanced relationships
  • Organizational and personal learning

Our Practice

A Framework for Engagement

Conflict creates strong feelings, evoking our instincts toward fight or flight. To move towards resolution, conflicts must be analyzed rationally and objectively, but without ignoring the very real cares, frustrations and antagonisms that fuel them.

Because conflict originates in relationships and interactions, the ARIA Method focuses on a process-based approach to conflict management and resolution. Whether applied at the level of individual self-analysis, between two parties in conflict, or as a tool for mediators intervening between conflicted parties, the ARIA Method moves participants toward constructive engagement and creative problem solving.

The ARIA Group's practitioners guide clients in the steps toward calmly evaluating their own responses to conflict in general and to the conflict at hand. By fostering a new awareness of shared interests and goals, the ARIA Method leads to cooperation and common cause between former antagonists. With the ARIA framework mastered, clients learn to apply it independently in order to creatively manage future conflict.

Levels of ARIA Mastery

The ARIA process for conflict management and resolution is applicable upon three different levels. First, it is useful as a personal tool for individuals to rationally analyze a conflict in which they are engaged - as a solo performance. Second, it is useful as an interpersonal process through which two or more persons may engage one another to resolve a conflict - as a duet. Finally, it may be used as a third party intervention tool to help several people or parties resolve a conflict - as a conductor.

the ARIA Solo | download the Solo Worksheet

the ARIA Duet | download the Duet Worksheet

the ARIA Conductor

Training Information
Conflict Management Training: Opening the Window to New Ideas

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